The title of my article would definitely have to point to what I now want to miss again.
Having been in a previous post ("My life is the lives of others") on the topic in general came to speak, I will now fully concentrate on the attention to poverty-stricken society.
It is, and there will agree with me probably almost all, a perfectly natural thing that a man hungry for attention.
From birth, you will be. First there are mom and dad, then the other kids in kindergarten. You look from people familiar to them from the very own way and expect the same in return.
This is not about trust and friendship, it's about being seen and heard. These
Perhaps this is an older child in the group of days which one has chosen as a model or to Papa, who is the great idol. People admire that person. Not in the sense of Vergötterns or worship, but a little we would already like to be like them. In any case do you want to make it right.
What you are doing so now in this situation?
A child that wants to please his parents, will probably draw a picture to practice a dance or simply to help even the mother with the dishes. A loving or well-meaning gesture, which has an impact. For the Reward is recognition and the desired attention.
In kindergarten and in the school years, then it will not go differently. Other children to tell you is the most interesting things that have happened to one or things that you yourself have done, where the other stops the mouth open, they knock on the shoulder and say that one is cool.
It is who, it is significant.
That is what on the whole.
attention is called to be perceived.
And of course, change the ways and means by which you want to achieve this result, in the course of growing up. An adult man is his work colleagues or his wife to paint a picture or tell of an exciting excursion in the amusement park. He has to resort to other means to get the desired recognition. Services are one of the most important criteria in the world of no-longer-children. Anyone who does much who does good condition and stand out from the crowd, who is respected by others.
Something special must have in itself, somewhat unusual. One should stand out and show character.
If you have mastered this, it's easy to draw attention to themselves. You get the confirmation, which we hoped, and feel an inner satisfaction.
A feeling that you need apparently to survive. But
what if you can not be distinguished from the others? If one is lost in the crowd, one of many, and absolutely nothing works to get out to do?
The attention of the people, which one has chosen to remain in, or is, more significantly worse directed at others. Others, who are apparently not even have to work hard to achieve this, the simple seem only to exist and is of the elect person only so showered with attention and affection resulting, in whatever form they may be.
What should we do now? How does you do?
How would you can now so much desired attention draw on yourself?
True, there is a way that many, so just go to an infinite number of people in such a situation.
One way of lying wrong, nasty and extremely easy.
For, if one is not able to shine by itself, then you have to bring others to extinction.
And that is precisely in this day and age, the age of the Internet, communication platforms, a children's game. You have to make it just kind of finding out what drives the competition so and then you try to criticize it to make it look bad.
Zack, you have yourself a little more settled. Only by the other pushes down. But
has only one of all the people who so act, ever thought about what he's doing there? If one understands not even that action is totally wrong, it just points out the weakness in general?
attempt by such means to Position Yourself in the right light, is evidence of a bad character.
And bad characters will never, no never really get the recognition in their lives, for which they long that way.
In that sense, finally, a tip for those who have realized after reading that they may be guided sometimes by such a bad character trait,
honesty, sincerity, and be true to themselves, which are the magic weapons on the search for attention and recognition.
Do not try to be someone who is not. Try to not want to impress someone important, he likes to do. It can only backfire.
silk itself and points out what you can do well what you like them to you and others will like it too.
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