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who held such a ceremony outdoors, while a thunderstorm is over-surprised, who has just bad luck. And it is certainly easier to complain about Peter, who is well known, responsible for the weather, but themselves to blame, not provided in time for an alternative venue to ha- . ben The Scapegoat To all these self-accusations from the outset a Rie-gel vorzuschieben invented, our ancestors sins-bock - they chose a kid from, launched at him all the blame of the community - although it could also impose on any individual responsibility for their own slippers and weaknesses - and then expelled him from the village. (Even today there are many companies and for large projects scapegoats -. Employees who are only there to take over in case of failure the responsibility) So you see: Who is to blame for his misfortune to the gods, fate, or anyone else in the shoes pushes that follows one of the oldest traditions of mankind and is out ; addition in the best society, because (almost) everyone else doing exactly the same. But one of the most important differences between poor and rich people is that rich people have learned to take responsibility. This does not mean that they were therefore willing to take on the role of the scapegoat. (This role is indeed very ungrateful-bar.) But they have learned to define goals and find Me methods to achieve these goals. And if one of these methods do not work, try another. And if not it works, yet another - as long as it reaches the target or even decide to pursue it no further, because the objective has changed in the meantime. your responsibility is not to guarantee the success of these ways - they expect failures and accept them as part of the path to success. Their responsibilities is the willingness to try a variety of methods if necessary - until one of them succeeds. When Thomas Alva Edison invented the light bulb, this was not a happy coincidence, as he is many other be-famous inventions based. He knew that he bring electricity substances to glow could - and sought a material that glow without prejudice to stand on and are working in so as the light source was. excess of one thousand tests went wrong - and Edison would be able to give up more than a thousand-NEN and sighing say, "It probably should not be." , But he kept going and reached his destination and saw not only that we now can do with a simple push of the night into day, but he created the foundation for modern research, with its multitude of experiments. "We can not always control what happens to us--. But we can always control how we react to it," This sentence is in countless variants are from various Authoritative source, is one of the secret results of successful people. They brood on failure-to long, who or what are responsible for this could-be required (this is only important if you avoid VER wants a repeat of an error). But her main focus lies in seeking out alternative ways to go but still the goal. You are ready to take on the responsibility for failure - which they regard not as a result of poor planning, but they see as another dead end, they continue exclusively & # 223; s can. Trial and error is no excuse for them, which they wish to pass on responsibility, but a method that they usually leads quickly to the goal. Instead of Teutonic thoroughness years only theoretical thinking about a task, then, with great effort and many experts the only possible because very best way auszuar-workers to fall on the nose and then look for someone to blame - instead, they consider the problem of Su Chen-after several solution paths and then test, wel-cher is probably the best. responsibility for the success "If the but happiness!" Is a common comment when someone is successful. If you do know that the excellent thus tried several methods usually only has to reach a predefined goal, relative fourth this statement very quickly - because the luck has usually method. Those who consistently is trying to reach a target, at some point to succeed. Set Just imagine that you would repair electrical equipment that are defective. Every fault there is a checklist that lists all possible causes. All you have to do, this list is by-pass, then find the error. If you have now fixed the first device - is it lucky that you found the error? Perhaps it is fortunate that the very first point on the check list the cause of the disturbance Turndown te, maybe it was not until the last point. Would that be bad? You never know beforehand whether it is the first or the last point is - so far could be applied here really the standards of good and bad luck. But if you could have found 20 devices repaired successfully using the checklist-ten, you would hardly even by luck or bad luck, but talk only of success-oriented approach. And it is your responsibility that you have decided, the devices are on good luck repair, but that you opt for the method-left, which gets always the goal. And because it was your responsibility to choose this method, you are responsible for it if it works - with a little luck sometimes faster, sometimes slower with a bit of bad luck. why it is so important that you continue to take on the responsibility - not for every detail, but the basic procedure. Take even the responsibility, if something does not work - you've tried it, it has does not work and now looking for an alternative. Accept but also the responsibility if something works, because the happiness that you had to find the right solution, the is a consequence of the performance-oriented method for which you have chosen. Avoid but responsibilities that you want to impose on others-you can not be made the scapegoat. Try the other way around but not to success to attach to the flag that had them. If you are a department manager and your department is successful, then it is because you lead the department well. If one of your employees does something Outstanding, then treat him success - and present themselves as a successful team or even better than suc-team. Because then you open the way for further success. Where's my money If you learn to take responsibility for his life, his decisions and the selection of his methods, it is clear that their own fi- ; nancial situation ultimately is only a consequence of their own decisions. Who is born poor, can not help it - he who hates his life poor remains and others tried to make it responsible, did not understand what ownership means. (The days when corrupt te exploited their serfs landowners are fortunately gone - no longer counts what one has inherited or conquered, but what is their head and what you do off. And definitely falls into the realm of personal responsibility.) Imagine, imagine you were a tanker captain, in one of the Arab oil countries has loaded and then just on the way back the Cape of Good Hope at the southern tip of Africa to-drive. They are faced with the task of defining the course for the next few weeks. Drive one-way straight, you come eventually to the Cape Horn, the tip of South America. A few degrees to starboard and you end up in Brazil, en. Only a few degrees to starboard and you end up in Mi-ami Beach. A few more degrees to starboard and you see New York and even a bit further to starboard and you are - according to another pan to hold-over distance - to Europe. If you imagine your life now as a long trip and Behave as a price that you give your life, then you can easily figure out what objectives to your instantaneous rate. Your jetzi-saturated life is a direct result of your past behavior - and if you change anything, will not change your life also. However, if you want to control a different goal - such as the goal to be rich - then think about what you have to do to change your behavior to achieve this goal. Accept the responsibility for this change and accept the responsibility for everything that happens in this way. Always remember: You can not lose all controlled what happens on the way - but it is your decision to set the course, and it's your preparation preparations- which ensure that you can respond well to unforeseen-Henes. If you decide to now, get rich, that's a nice goal. They also know that you need to save because you are only as capable of the best from themselves and the opportunities present themselves to you to make. And you know that you need to prepare for the unpredictable incidents of this journey. (Good planning is important -. But without the ability to respond flexibly to the unexpected, is good for even the best planning anything) If you know all this, but it is not Question everything that you might one day be wealthy - the question is at best still: When? Ask yourself from now on no longer, if you will one day be rich - but you wonder just where your money is and how to best achieve it. To do this please before just as the captain a supertanker, the goal of secure by setting long-term rates with reduced power consumption achieved - and avoid it like a sailor chasing every little breeze. (That all the people that follow are only short-term goal: to do. Although they are constantly active, but come despite the no-bit on) Make yourself a plan FÜ , r the next five years, such as: in a year I will 5 , 000, - EURO have in the account, This type of goal is unrealistic - unless you are prepared to do something about it, you can achieve these objectives effective Lich. Accept the responsibility for deciding on these changes, you accept pets Setbacks (and prepare yourself as up-front, they want to be good!) And expect success. See more wealth but not as a gift of fate, but as a logical extension of your own efforts. Over-take responsibility for your success! |
| Conclusion Most people are afraid of uncontrollable Coincidences and are looking for rather a person responsible for, happens to them. The scapegoat has a long tradition - and helps to distract of speculation over the possible causes of errors. There are no mistakes - it is only results do not meet our expectations. no responsibility for a single action, but take care of the basic procedure and accept this error as part of the process. We can not always control what happens to us, but we can always set, how we react to it. luck at successful people is the result of methodical and persevering action and not a twist of fate. Avoid responsibilities you want the other aufbür- - do not be a scapegoat. who has learned to take responsibility for his actions and decisions, is also able to to define goals to achieve and - that includes the construction of its own assets. long-term goals can be achieved with small movements, other hand, require short-term goals often a great effort. your current life is a direct result of your past behavior - and change if they do not, will not change your life also. not you see wealth as a gift of fate, but as a logical extension of your own efforts. |
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